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The Abortion Industry: A Wolf in “Women’s Health” Clothing

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This is the hardest article I have had to compose thus far. In all honesty, I did not want to write this article as the only abortion I have experienced was considered a spontaneous abortion, better known as a miscarriage at 8 weeks; but when God calls you to something, you must trust that you […]

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Never Bending the Knee

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The death of Charlie Kirk sparked a mass media frenzy; most notably in the black community. Blacks were reprimanded for displaying any compassion, remorse, or grief of a life lost which happened in front of the brother’s wife, children and a plethora of young college students. Blacks cited their Christian faith as the generation of

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Forces of Energy

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Since the beginning of recorded history, humans have cited a supernatural force in their livelihood and life journey. No matter the religion, or lack thereof, humans have a connection to that which we cannot see and oftentimes, cite the supernatural as the motivating force in our behavior. Life events occur that drive our response system

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How to Change Your Life

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I haven’t always been at peace with myself and others. There was a time in my life where I felt like I was inside of a deep dark pit that I had no way of getting out of. I was addicted to porn, I was angry, I was dealing with childhood trauma and I was

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What About Your Friends?

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My family moved around a lot when I was younger. From kindergarten to 5th grade, I grew up and went to school in predominately white environments in Kansas City and Overland Park, Kansas. Once I hit 5th grade, we went from a PW environment to a predominately black neighborhood and education system.  Having to change

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The Truth About Elitist

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Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs is a psychological tool used to describe human motivation https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.html. 4 out of the 5 relate to the human desire to be connected, accepted, or recognized socially. In the current age of social media, the idea of becoming an elitist has transposed from our screens into our brains.  From Facebook posts

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How to Fight Through Mental Challenges

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I recently experienced one of the most perplexing mental health challenges in my life. I can typically experience a mentally challenging day once in a blue moon. Usually it comes, I fight through it and by the end of the day, the sun is shining. This most recent episode was nothing like this. Instead of

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How to Practice Humility

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The mottos for the current climate typical consist of some type of negative and selfish saying such as “If it doesn’t serve me, (insert selfishness),” “I deserve”, “I reciprocate energy”. The media propaganda also influences the state of relationships via the culture by perpetuating the narrative that women shouldn’t be with men who make less

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How to Practice Gentleness

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I grew up in a society that began influencing women to strive for success, competition, and independence from men. It was often encouraged to be aggressive, strong-willed, forceful, and callous as anything in opposition would stifle a woman’s progression toward the goal she should attain; financial success by any means.  The emergence of new and

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How To Stop Being Judgmental

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I have been a Christian for 21 years. I strayed from it when I was experiencing the world, and when I came back and began reading the Bible again, I became extremely judgmental. I felt as though I had religious superiority because I had a relationship with God, Jesus, and The Holy Spirit.  Instead of

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My name is Ocia (pronounced o-see-yah). I have been with my husband for 11 years and married for 6! I have 2 children and a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration. I currently work full-time from home and take care of my children as they are not school aged yet!

The purpose I have in creating this blogging website is to present verifiable facts and personal experiences that can aid in reshaping the thought life towards a mind of gratitude with everyday life.

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