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How to Be Lovingly Truthful

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The elephant in the room isn’t just an idiom; it is the way that some of us (including myself) have lived our lives. Telling the truth can cause relationships to end, isolation, and emotional distress when delivered in a way that isn’t intended to help the receiver.  In addition to the aforementioned, the truth can […]

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Wives Submit to Your Husbands

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The question often posed to women during the dating period and oftentimes before the first date is planned is “Are you a submissive woman?”  The proposed purpose of this question is to determine whether or not the woman is wife material. The first problem with this question is that a woman is not to be

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How to Take Rest From Information Overload

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We live in an age where information is endless. From the most important matter to the least important thing, there are a million pieces of information that pertain to it and are being fed to us on a daily basis. It doesn’t matter if the information is fact or fiction, the goal of the distributor

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Giving Grace to Black Men & Their Mental Health

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In recent weeks, I have been observing the conversations taking place on social media between black men and black women. On both sides of the aisle, there is a desire to be in a relationship and have a family structure. What I have found is that the social engines scream for the correct treatment, grace,

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Pride Comes Before A Fall

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I always wondered what pride was. I looked up the definition and still couldn’t correlate what it meant for me or if I practiced it. This week, it was revealed to me that not only did I harbor pride, but I allowed it to birth self-righteous indignation within me. I sought disagreements in order to

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Letting God Guide Your Talent(s)

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I fast once a week for my blog topics. I do this in order to gain what it is God wants me to inform the reader about and to ensure that it is His Will and not my own. My hope is that I never write anything that He didn’t ask or direct me to

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The Abortion Industry: A Wolf in “Women’s Health” Clothing

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This is the hardest article I have had to compose thus far. In all honesty, I did not want to write this article as the only abortion I have experienced was considered a spontaneous abortion, better known as a miscarriage at 8 weeks; but when God calls you to something, you must trust that you

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Never Bending the Knee

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The death of Charlie Kirk sparked a mass media frenzy; most notably in the black community. Blacks were reprimanded for displaying any compassion, remorse, or grief of a life lost which happened in front of the brother’s wife, children and a plethora of young college students. Blacks cited their Christian faith as the generation of

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Forces of Energy

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Since the beginning of recorded history, humans have cited a supernatural force in their livelihood and life journey. No matter the religion, or lack thereof, humans have a connection to that which we cannot see and oftentimes, cite the supernatural as the motivating force in our behavior. Life events occur that drive our response system

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How to Change Your Life

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I haven’t always been at peace with myself and others. There was a time in my life where I felt like I was inside of a deep dark pit that I had no way of getting out of. I was addicted to porn, I was angry, I was dealing with childhood trauma and I was

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My name is Ocia (pronounced o-see-yah). I have been with my husband for 11 years and married for 6! I have 2 children and a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration. I currently work full-time from home and take care of my children as they are not school aged yet!

The purpose I have in creating this blogging website is to present verifiable facts and personal experiences that can aid in reshaping the thought life towards a mind of gratitude with everyday life.

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