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When Did Minerva Become Black?

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Another idolatry battle is brewing between black people who love their idols and those who Love God. As denunciations of Delta Sigma Theta and Black Greek Letter Organizations arise, black people are responding by saying that this is an intentional destruction of black excellence.  Ironic? Yes and also confusing! Delta Sigma Theta regards Minerva as […]

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There Is Hope

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Reading the Epstein Files disturbed me so that it was difficult for me to sleep until I wrote Reject The Influence. Writing allowed me to release the knowledge that held me in a position of “What do I do about this?” and “How can I help?” Once something so horrendous is released into the public, once the

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Reject The Influence

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Social media is filled with all kinds of rage bait from racism to politics, religion to celebrity culture and everything in-between. The experiment performed is to understand what words and images can create the most sensation across the internet realm and how those sensations can be used to control the population.  The NIH confirms that it

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Don’t Take It Personal

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I grew up in a family where the men and women alike were clowned if they got beat up or were too shy to square up. We were taught that if someone disrespected you, that you make it known loud and clear it would not be tolerated; initially with your words and immediately after that with

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How to Be Lovingly Truthful

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The elephant in the room isn’t just an idiom; it is the way that some of us (including myself) have lived our lives. Telling the truth can cause relationships to end, isolation, and emotional distress when delivered in a way that isn’t intended to help the receiver.  In addition to the aforementioned, the truth can

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Wives Submit to Your Husbands

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The question often posed to women during the dating period and oftentimes before the first date is planned is “Are you a submissive woman?”  The proposed purpose of this question is to determine whether or not the woman is wife material. The first problem with this question is that a woman is not to be

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How to Take Rest From Information Overload

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We live in an age where information is endless. From the most important matter to the least important thing, there are a million pieces of information that pertain to it and are being fed to us on a daily basis. It doesn’t matter if the information is fact or fiction, the goal of the distributor

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Giving Grace to Black Men & Their Mental Health

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In recent weeks, I have been observing the conversations taking place on social media between black men and black women. On both sides of the aisle, there is a desire to be in a relationship and have a family structure. What I have found is that the social engines scream for the correct treatment, grace,

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Pride Comes Before A Fall

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I always wondered what pride was. I looked up the definition and still couldn’t correlate what it meant for me or if I practiced it. This week, it was revealed to me that not only did I harbor pride, but I allowed it to birth self-righteous indignation within me. I sought disagreements in order to

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Letting God Guide Your Talent(s)

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I fast once a week for my blog topics. I do this in order to gain what it is God wants me to inform the reader about and to ensure that it is His Will and not my own. My hope is that I never write anything that He didn’t ask or direct me to

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My name is Ocia (pronounced o-see-yah). I have been with my husband for 11 years and married for 6! I have 2 children and a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration. I currently work full-time from home and take care of my children as they are not school aged yet!

The purpose I have in creating this blogging website is to present verifiable facts and personal experiences that can aid in reshaping the thought life towards a mind of gratitude with everyday life.

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